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Originally Posted by Honey Boon
no need so kan cheong la, wait a few years for a clearer picture. the gal still young, she can wait. one thing, vnam mei mei has no patience. if she is not up to your standard, everything will surface up. then the next one will be better, you will be spoilt with better choices. no worry
if she know you have other alternatives, she will "treat" you better
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this is a goot goot...experienced bro in Vn scene...must listen...
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Originally Posted by Honey Boon
ya la, no patience, today know you, tomorrow want to have baby with you, then the day after want to get marry liao. Tarik a bit.....  |
haha...this sounds so familiar...
alot of newbies nvr go to Vn to understand the Vn culture and thinking of marrying them...ask yourself the questions...
1) do you understand her and her family
2) can you afford to feed her and family
3) is it love or lust (small head thinking and not big head)
4) do you doubt that the marriage will succeed or doomed to fail
5) do you know that once married the Sinkie women charter law apply
6) ask yourself how long the marriage can lasts
7) how you intend to apply LSTV, PR, Citizen and what happened if kena rejected...
8) if 7 fail then can you live apart and make frequent trips to Vn..
9) can you accept the Vn culture
10) many more questions to ask yourself...why dun take time to observes and watch...