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Thanks bro, sori to f**k here and there, thanks for you adivce

Originally Posted by SingViet

Troi oi Bro, don't f**k here and f**k there la. I can understand your feeling. Sometimes when we ask a question, we expect to get a direct answer, but when such respond doesn't come, we get agitated. But sometimes, fellow samsters need more information so that they can give you a better answer.

I feel that $800 is too much to give to a ban gai. Of course it depends on how much you earn per month and what committments you have. You got to let your ban gai know that she and her family members should work and your monthly contribution is just something extra to supplement her income. $800 is around 13 million VND, if she and her parents stay in province, they do not need so much money. Have one thing in mind, if she's meant to be yours, she will be yours. If you attract her by money, she will only stay with you when she feels you have the money, when you don't have the money, she will go off. Often, they will come up with special request like Handphones, Motorbikes, parents sick etc. So keep eyes open and pocket shut, if want to give, $300 to $400 a month is more than enough.