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Originally Posted by JOGK
Are you going to keep her permanently or just temporally
Or even got the intention to marry her
Are you prepare for this?
Do you have enough time and $$$ for this?
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Many factor have to be considered like cultural, religion , age-gap, parental objection and etc
It may seem fun whenever you're with her in Batam but a long term relationship will need serious mindful consideration and preparation
Most go with the heart in Batam because of the GFE but in reality when being together in a long term r/s it's different ballgame
To jamin a cewe and house her also in Batam has many obstacle like her fooling around whenever you're not around hence Pak's posting that Batam is not a good place to house your cewe = lots of influence
Pak is not discouraging but just letting Mas here know of the pros and cons of having a longterm cewe
Final decision is obviously down to the Mas themselves for Pak can only lay out some objectives o ponder