[guzzler]

It could be the turnoff of the condom or it could be anxiety. If you're not relaxed it's hard to be completely turned on.

If you're not getting enjoyment out of it, I recommend you take a break. When you're used to going raw with your wife or gf it can be a turnoff to be capped.

I've had sessions where I wasn't fully turned on either, maybe tired or other distractions. What I've learned is to save my money and time for when I'm feeling good and actually horny, not just when I have extra time.