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Originally Posted by SingViet
Its normal la. They have too many committments to their family. Till now, my wife and i still have issues over her watches. I think i mentioned before in the forum. My wife change watches every few months, max 6 months with 1 watch. Although the watches i buy for her are not too expensive, around $200 to $400 for one, but she will find reasons to change watch every 6 months or so. After she change watch, her `old' watch will be given to her sister when we meet her in Saigon, and she does all these behind my back. I will only realise when i see her sister wearing her watch. Initially i will question her, and it will always lead to arguments. Nowadays, i just keep quiet but try my best to prevent her from changing watches so often.  |
correct bro,my wife use to like to change hp then after few months,bring back to give her mother or sis use.now is shoes,bag and clothes.she only use her things few time then bring back when she is back.i dont know is it because of face issue or their habit?but she did tell me before that she have to buy things back as a gift to family and friends cos always they will ask why no give them any gift from singapore for them when she see them when she go back.thats why now she also dont like to go back. anyway now like u,i also sometime close one eye as long is not expensive.
still remember when she is still my girlfriend,i bring her to mustafa to buy lots of chocolate to bring back to give to her family member and friends cos she say singapore chocolate taste better
i did told her that whatever u buy to give them,u must never give your family an impression that u are well off here.or else if they start to borrow from u money,u have to face it if they start to ask from u money cos u create all this in the first place to let them know that u can afford to borrow them.