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Originally Posted by KangTuo
not successful in putting a "good boy" image  |
tcss too much and long time never write stories...
Just like any other bros who get to know a vb initially, we will always like to find out more before we can trust them. My first 2 years of relationship with my girlfriend is really like a "investigation" phase where i keep trying to find out the truth of everything she said. I did found out she lied but still forgive after some thinking and reasoning out by myself. I never tell her that i know that she is actually lying to me. I kept it to myself and also constantly educate her that she should not lie as by telling 1 lie, she need to lie 10 more times to cover the one lie. After which she need to tell 100 lies to cover the 10 lies... this will be very tiring and someday it will burst and both of us will not be happy anymore. Indeed it works, as after some times she confessed her lies automatically and admit that it is very tiring to lie. From that day on, she never hide any more things from me and i trusted her.
On the other hand, i have been lying to her and painting a "goody boy" image infront of her for coming to 5 years till recently she knows every bad thing about me
One of the night during her recently trip here, she told me that she do not trust me like use to be but still love me and understands me. She accepts that guys sometime need to go out have fun awhile (this is one thing i like about my girlfriend). She will let me have freedom but hope i won't misuse it and don't take for granted. She is hoping i will change for better in the future. (i will try harder)
Bros, before we think and start saying that viet girls are always cheating, cannot be trusted, we need to be on our guard, etc... we need to think whether are we guys a saint who don't cheat, tell lies and steal eat outside.
Have any bros think what will happen if your viet girlfriend/partners/wife found out about the ECA you had been doing?
ps: viet girls are well known to "cat cu" their partners
