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Originally Posted by KangTuo
vietnamese treasure family so i bet they will take good care of childrenof the vb. i have seen vb who are just plain lazy and never even wash clothings for weeks. my girlfriend can take care of home very well. doing house chores will depends on the characters
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Traditionally, vietnamese spouses will take care of their children and husband. But whether this is true, it will dependd a lot on character of yr vietnamese spouse. If yr spouse is the very `province' type of gal, there's a high chance she's not too interested in the kid's education. My wife is not too highly educated, in terms of responsibilities and kid's education, she's not very `up-to-the-mark' yet. For example, sleeping is very important to her and she can just forsake everything for sleeping. To me, this is irresponsible. Kid's education wise, I am also in charged. I ensure that i spend time on my kid's education daily, without completing homework, they can forget about play. To the normal province vietnamese, education is not too important. Thus, i salute those vietnamese parents who place priority on their children's education.
As for housechores and taking care of kids, i admit i have pampered my wife too much. In Vn, we had a few maids to take care of the kids and housework. Even after returning to Singapore, i still employ 2 maids to do housework and take care of the kids. There was a period of time when i suggested to have just 1 maid, my wife had to take care of the children. She was damm frustrated everyday and we argue almost daily. So no choice, switch back to 2 maids.
