[haojian]

Not really. she treats me like a father and not her husband. i feel like a walking atm to pay her all her wants and needs. she always threatens divorce and bringing the babies back to vietnam unless i agree to whatever she wants.

she is currently here on work permit, her boss says would help her to apply for PR maybe in a year. what happens when i cant afford to, i dont want to wait for that day to come. now i only have my babies in mind, I dont want to lose them. anyone have suggestions?