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Originally Posted by haojian
Not really. she treats me like a father and not her husband. i feel like a walking atm to pay her all her wants and needs. she always threatens divorce and bringing the babies back to vietnam unless i agree to whatever she wants.
she is currently here on work permit, her boss says would help her to apply for PR maybe in a year. what happens when i cant afford to, i dont want to wait for that day to come. now i only have my babies in mind, I dont want to lose them. anyone have suggestions?
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threatens divorce and bring the baby back unless u agree to whatever she say,for this i think is not a right thing to do.sorry as i dont know your family background so i can only comment on what i feel if my wife do this to me.
i wont let my wife use this as a weapon against me cos i dont give a fucking damm if my wife use this to get whatever she want from me.is overboard and i dont think she treat me as his husband.
bro,from your message,i can see that she know what is your weak point,thats why she do this to u.she know u scare to lose her and the baby and now u are in a miserable state cos she treat u as her atm.
sad to know u are in this state and sorry to say that i feel your wife dont love u.talk to her on what she want and ask yourself is it worth to continue this marriage.
btw,i dont know employer can apply PR for foreigner,any bro can enlighten me cos i thought is your spouse or u yourself can apply