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Originally Posted by SingViet
Yes, i do agree that its good to share the load together. I think i mentioned before that its good to let her know your finances and expenditure. Let her know that life in Singapore is not easy. My wife and i were not borned with the finances that we had now, we struggled for many years in Vn. Sometimes when we chit chat and recall our tough moments in building up the business, we still feel the ache we suffered before. But its also thru all these hardships that we suffered that brought us closer and understand each other better. Build your family together, enjoy your achievements and suffer the sufferings together, it will enhance your understanding of each other and bring you closer.  |
everything is worth it if your viet wife suffer with u before during bad time and share the happiness during good time.i use to be very particular towards expecting my wife to follow my ways of doing things when we just got marry.first years was hell as we quarrel often and i make her cry.
but after seeing how she treat my father and help me while i was in vietnam,i start to change myself as to not so demanding and nowadays i try to close one eye.i always ask myself to look at her good side after we quarrel and slowly i change if i feel i am too demanding.
nowadays i will try to make her happy with her small wish if i can do.i learn to not to take things so seriously especially towards her