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Originally Posted by Hurricane88
very good sharing...most I agree except want to add to the above...
point 2...have seen my ex #1 having planned ahead...she has a savings of more than 100 millions...she will not used even if no money...this money was for her rainy days... 
point 5...there are good and bad women among Viet..generally no one born evil...you need time to observe and decide yourself...gives yourself 2 yrs perhaps longer example bro kangtuo took 5 yrs with his #1 and finally decide to get married...
also point 5...if your ban gai or bx willing to discuss with you for all matters and not lying...then as bf or ox should be willing to help especially money matters if we can afford the surplus...take it as loan and never gives freely...tell her deduct from her monthly allowances..
be truthfully and tell her if you are financially tight...above are just my opinion...^_^ |
yah bro,i agree with your point 2,my wife is a good example,she got her own property in vietnam and she told me is for our retirement and told me that she rather save here and buy house in vietnam than buying branded goods,heng huh hahaha
your point 5-every time when she need money for her house or her family and borrow from me,i would say i help her to borrow from bank and she must return and she honor her words by paying back a few each month.
is true that i am telling lies to her but is for my own good cos end of the day i am helping her and also ourself to use her money wisely
i always told her if u are working in sg,your money is for yourself,i dont care she give how much to her family or use for what but i want her to know that i am the one who is supporting her and my family in sg.
i also told her that she dont have to scare one day we have no money or no rice to eat cos i will be a responsible husband to her but i also told her that if i can help within my financial status,i will help,but if cannot,i must have my reason