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Originally Posted by SingViet
I think the idea here is not about the wife returning bit by bit, its about why the wife should carry the burden of renovating the house when there are so many siblings out there? Everyone should share a part. They always give reasons like they are poor, cannot afford etc. Just like my MIL, she always tell my wife and I that she is damm poor, cannot afford this and that. But she has money to lend her lazy daughter.  |
yah bro,that is the problem whereby their family member always push the responsbility to that one who marry a foreign spouse and usually they have to shoulder the burden.so sometime sg bro should also understand where the wife come from and explain to them but normally she will still think is their duty as a daughter but there is also some rare case.so bro who want to marry viet should know all this will play a part.
happen to know another one who get PR,during marriage her husband give her 1k as allowance and she was working.so within 5 years of marriage,she send most of the money to her family to buy land and build house.
after 5 years of marriage,her husband divorce her and that was the same time her father divorce her mother and chase her out of the house.now she is working and rent a room outside.suddenly her income went down without the 1k usually given by the husband and she have to pay rent and expenses all by herself.
recently her mother told her she want to rent a house in hcm and start her own small F&B outside the house.she ask her daughter to borrow her 10k to do that.so her daughter go to borrow from friends.Is a never ending things and bro should learn how to handle if want to marry a viet,unless she is rich,dont say
