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Originally Posted by sgchionger
Dear Seniors
Been reading through the posts and it is really informative. I am a late 20s guy.
I been visiting Thai Disco for about 6-8 months and i know this coyote 6 months back. Initially she is not interested in me and treats me like a customer. However i was persistant and after some time she says she like me. She started calling me back in Thailand almost everyday for a few months and i did so during the intitial 1 month also. She started to get close and says she wants to cook for me after she marry me. However due to distance i lost interest along the way, i did not call her often. She started to say i got girl in singapore etc.
She came back to Singapore a month ago to work as a coyote. I visit her a few times at the place where she work and 1-2 times we quarrel. Shortly she told me she dont like me to go find her when she is working, she told me she is here to make money for pay for some things back in her home. Well as can save money on ladies drink then i am ok with that too.
She never requsted me to give her money so far, i could maybe meet her 1-2 times per week for dinnner however whenever i ask to pick her up after work, she always refuse. Her excuse is that she can go back with friends or she need to eat with customers. She always says she is drunk or she is tired, ask me to understand her.
Once i was meeting her after her work hours to go to the beach, at around 130am she call to say she is drunk and need to go back with her friends. I sense something wrong and i waited for her at the place she work discreetly in a corner. Then i saw her came out with her customer and her friend. I was very angry and thought i will break off with her this time, i went to take a closer look but she saw me from a distance. I quickly went out and she chase after me. I thought i should be the one angry but then she gets emotional and ask me why i dont trust her etc, seems like i kenna screw instead. A few days after that she told me that customer supports her a lot by buying her a lot of drinks. The customer also takes her to see doctor when she is sick but she did not tell me, saying she wants me to save money, cos i told her i got house and car loan to service.
I have feelings for her but i feel she is hiding something from me. She sometimes show me her handphone and i browse through the pictures and there is this little girl which she told me is her brother daughter. Then on 1 occasion she jokingly says its her daughter but she quickly jokingly denied after that.
I dont spend a lot of time and money on her but i do have feelings for her.
I am willing to further the r/s and marry her if i know she is true to me and not treating me like a carrot when she has multiple boyfriends.
Bros, how do you all decipher this situation? please advise a lost sheep.
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I'm not senior. I chiong Thai Disco only for 3 years? My wife was a coyote too. after married then stop chionging hahahaha
Because you only chiong a few months so u in this situation until you see more then u will know how to decipher yourself. your situation ah is a situation alot of people fall into if they emotionally attached to the girls. All the stories are about the same. They sure to have alot of secrets that they cannot tell you. Main reason, they need to keep their customers happy so they get regular LD sales. My friend kanna until buay tahan have to break up.
With regards to the daughter, another friend who chiong thai disco with me, same situation. Even go thailand to visit the family. Introduce "brother" who was actually the husband. and he every month send money end up found out she using the money support the husband.
What you can do is become friends with alot of them. This is just one way, may be wrong may be ok to use up to you. Coz I have friend who is very gam with all these girls but no bf gf all just friends. over time they become good friends then they also protect my friend by telling any secrets that my friend should know before getting involved. he never buy ld flower or watever but he remembers their birthdays bring them eat cheap local food things that friends do la. and he doesnt pay for their food. he just tour guide.
Then why I can marry my wife? Coz before i set any commitments, she agrees to stop working in nightlife if we get together. Before that I never spend money on her never send money to her. And now we are married, she took up a simple day job. Details cannot divulge la hor confidential lol.
If you want to marry her, you need to get her out of nightlife work. Sure have problems until divorce if she continues working there.
Moral of the story: You dont want to get your carrot chopped then dont take out your carrot. Don't believe what the girls say. Just Um Ah Orh. EVEN MY WIFE SAYS THAT. That's why she used action to prove it she stopped working in nightlife and found a job on her own before we made any commitments.