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Originally Posted by SingViet
If you want to marry in VN, the legal age is 18 years old. But why marry such a young gal? Young gals are playful and not stable. I think there was a study done not long ago, gals that marry young tend to divorce after 2 or 3 years. In marriage, we want stability. Young gals are naive, when they argue with you, they tend to stray easily. Gals after the age of 25 or 26 are better bets. In marriage, there's lots of endurance and sacrifice. If you feel you cannot stick with 1, better not marry. If divorce after have kids, the kids suffer big time. My years of marriage till now, there are times when i feel like giving up, but the thought of my kids hold me down. Got to be responsible for what you have done, we are not ang moh, can marry and divorce as many times as we like. Sometimes, when a certain attitude in marriage couldn't work, just ponder over it, change your attitude and problem can be solved. Good luck !!
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Agree with what u say.To mantain a marriage is seriously not easy.Nowadays sg couple.little bit cannot or not happy,want divorce.Recent study show that, older couple whose kids already grown up who are 50 plus and above,divorce rate is going up.Singapore society have change and ppl now value more individual happiness or freedom.
I was always curious as to most couple would rather close one eye, suffer in silence or endurace cos because of dont want kids to suffer if divorce.But what about if 30 or 40 years later when your kids grow up and marry with own family,will the marriage still continue as happy?Hard to say.
My wife sometime ask me will we be like that old couple with white hair,still holding hands while on the street when we grow old.I told her 20 to 30 years later,nobody know.