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Originally Posted by jf66312
yup..definitely not easy...in Singapore , single income family is never easy so finding an understanding vb as bxa is a challenge..
bro...legal age for Vb to marry foreigner in Singapore is 21 yrs old..
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thanks for your advice
my girl want to learn hair dressing so that she can work in sg hair saloon when we get married and live in sg. is there a way to have her stay in and work here on longer without having to marry her because she's still below 19?
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Originally Posted by SingViet
If you want to marry in VN, the legal age is 18 years old. But why marry such a young gal? Young gals are playful and not stable. I think there was a study done not long ago, gals that marry young tend to divorce after 2 or 3 years. In marriage, we want stability. Young gals are naive, when they argue with you, they tend to stray easily. Gals after the age of 25 or 26 are better bets.
Good luck !!
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thanks for sharing bro singviet! i actually can stick with one and i think she's the one i want to stick with. every time we have go apart at the airport i always feel my heart sinks into my stomach and then she phone me and say "ong xaaa...." in her unique purring tone... i feel want to cry
Such thing never happens in my life when i was with any other girls.
i personally also think she's still young to get married but girls in her village all got married by the age of 21. understanding a bx is already a challenge, let alone the financial burden thereafter. i foresee my life a lot tougher unless i can earn 100k annually consistently then i think no much problem on the bread and butter, i think...
the only thing now is she cannot see my very often and i don't know what to do to maintain the long distance relationship... the only thing i can do is to visit her on monthly basis.
but i'm confused on the legal age for marriage... some ppl told me 21, my girl told me 19 but under the parents consent... some also say 18...
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Originally Posted by Golden question
bro doggie,since u are still young,marry bro like us should give u some info on before marriage and after marriage is not the same.
After marriage,love will change to care and good things might be change to things u might not like.Feeling is different liao
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please bomb me with lots of thoughts/info/warning etc that you bros who are married to a bx can... yea nowadays my girl like to call me early in the morning and out of nothing but keep on calling me "ong xa... ong xa... ong xa..." and giggle...
lovey dovey honeymoon period but when i think of the stuff that i will have to go through in the future with her... it brings me headache even now... i am still very young but my girl is even younger... she has her own family financial problem and i have my own conquest in my career path and wealth planning and my own financial commitment every month... lots and lots of things to think about.
really lots of things to think about and planning to do to get together with a future bx...
btw during my recent meet-up with my girl, she said i slimmed down a lot and become too skinny... then she gave me two types of medicine... she ask me to take one of each once a day... it will help me to sleep well and eat more... she was very skinny back then but not anymore after she took the pills. she insist that it's effective and insist me to eat
i still doubt the pills.
many thanks to the caring bros here.
love,
doggie