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Originally Posted by Golden question
When i first marry,we quarrel quite often due to my hetic work and impatient.Her stubborn attitude together with me insisting my way of doing things make things worse.I always show her a smelly face when i came home after work and she start to tell me,whatever unhappiness i face at work,i should not bring back to home.I start to ask myself whether i am right in marrying her after many quarrels and also part of her stubborness which refuse to listen to the reason on why i say so.If only i came in this thread before i marry her,i would learn a lot from experience bro here and all those quarrel will be lesser.
After changing to a less hetic work,i start to become more relax and have more time with her.She massage my shoulder when i say i am tired,every day she will wake up early to cook for me before going to work,cover me with a blanket when she wake up and see me cold,draw down the window curtain to block the sunlight shinning in while i am sleeping.After few years of marriage,she is still doing all this to me.She even joke with me that she like taking care about a big baby 
I start to close one eye and try to think of those good things she do to me after quarrel and it help in our marriage.Like what bro shysaint say,communication is very important,knowing them and understand them is much easier if u focus on those good things she do to u.Is true that stubborn is in their blood but they can be a very caring wife if u are lucky.
1 thing that i always remember is how she take care of my dad when he is hospitalised and at home.Maybe is time we should also share some good things about our vietnam spouse cos they still have some good points that sg girl lack of towards a sg man  |
1st thing 1st ... whether u marry a Sg gal , Vn gal, Thai gal .. any gal ... it's the same ...
In Sg .. what spoils an relationship .... STRESS ... WORK LOAD ... NOT ENOUGH $$$ ... NO TIME ... WIFE NOT UNDERSTANDING ... WIFE CANNOT GET ALONG WITH PARENTS .. CHILDREN ... there are many many many ... sometimes we guys used these as excuse or reason ....
No one is Perfect ... I also sometimes think why I should get involve with my wife .. maybe she can find someone better than me and have better life ...
That's why i Said it's Fate (at the 1st place) ....
Bro .. you have a wife that do all theses stuffs for you ... especially after a period of uncertainties ... maybe for some others, she probably have left you ... but then things changed for the better ...
My wife don't put blanket for me ....she don't wake up early for me .. she don't fetch me at airport when I go VN ... there are many many that she don't do which I hope she will do ...
BUT then ... I still love her for what she is .... all her carings and thoughts for me are from the heart although she don't show it ...
Therefore, every gal is different .... every feeling is different .. treasure what you have is more imprtant than what you going to expect ... no point comparing what others have ...
