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Old 03-12-2011, 01:39 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by vietboy View Post
Yes, i agreed. If there are any misunderstandings or quarrels, be it big or small, have to sit down at clear it out with yur wife. Try explain to her yur views n try understand her views too. Have to "da shi hua xiao, xiao shi hua wu". If not, it will snowball n next time when the 2 of u quarrel again, all will be brought out again. Then it will be nvr ending. So like wat u n shysaint said, it boils down to communication n it takes 2 hands to clap!
The thing is mine will still be stubborn even after hearing my point of view.She will think i make things difficult for her and always say i look down on her which i am not.But that was the first few years,now slowly we start to understand each other point of view.Learn to close 1 eye and i try to look at her good things which she do for me.All this take a lot of patient and understanding for both of us.

She know i change a lot and i can also see her change in her stubborn attitude.Is a good sign