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Originally Posted by SingViet
The initial few years of marriage when there were lots of arguments and misunderstandings, i did regret a bit. But thru these years, when efforts were made to understand each other, sacrifices were made for the family, i have not regretted. They make good spouses (not all) although they have their short comings. We also need to put in effort to provide them with proper living standards, a proper family, simply we need to be responsible too.
But i did come across quite some marriages breaking down due to variety of reasons.
No matter what, communication and understanding is very important.  |
Yes communication is very important especially when different cultures n languages btwn us n them.
I recently heard an example from a vb WL: there is this guy who have a vietnamese wife who is in singapore but the guy still almost everyday without fail go find this vb at her work place, go out with her, send her home after work. Dun know wat this guy trying to achieve. Get free bonk? Wife cannot give ha? Dun know how he feels after he go home to sleep after hugging another gal.
To this bro, 你对得起枕边人吗？if u no love yur wife why marry her in the fist place and now do this to her? Do u sleep well?