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Originally Posted by Golden question
I mean not all but most,from what i encounter and see.
Recently my wife told me her heart pain when she found out that her mom actually bought not that good food or fruits to her grandma to eat.She every month contribute few dollars to her mom to buy for her to eat.Every time when she is back,she will buy 5 to 6 tin of milk powder for her to drink.Each cost around $30 plus.
She everytime tell me her mother no good,but in the end she still love her.When her father die last year,she went to his wake and greet people coming to pay respect to him even though her dad leave her mom for another woman when she is 5 years old.Her dad did not care for them or give them money.
I ask her why she go since her father did not take care of them from that time they are born,she just keep quiet and say he is her father.So their culture or thinking is really not that simple compare to ours
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i hate this `no matter what.. he/she is my who who who..' Knn, these people treat them like shit and yet they cannot deny the kinship in anyway. My wife's 2nd sister did a lot of bad things towards my wife and i since we got married. But my wife still tells me `no matter what, she is still my sister.' when i hear this, makes my blood boil. She doesn't regard you as sister and yet you still regard her as sister. This is how these VB are tied down by kinship.