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Originally Posted by ansonsohna
Sorry if I offend. And if TS or any regular contributors feel uncomfortable about me opening up - and unfortunately there are other can of worms  . I will 100% clam up and just be a silent reader and supporter to this wonderful wonderful thread. |
There is nothing to get offend about.
You share what you experienced and thoughts .. simple equations ...
As for its depth and truth, its up to readers to believe it true or not ... we don't scrutinise the sharing.
Every family has its own story to tell ...
For me , whether is Cannot Control feeling or desire and etc ... what have committed is already committed, know and not withdrawing from it, it's a different situations all together .. and further involving will only evolve into "what goes around comes around"
Relationship is a strange affairs .. no body can specifically describe it ... however it's always take 2 hands to clap ... communications ... tolerance ... and many many attributes to make it happen ... not just by Talking ..
Vietnamese do not take relationship / marriage seriously ... only cases of unfortunate ones are know and publised ... Those good ones, you can't even describe how good they are ... and how fortunate they are ...
Well, Maybe what you met are the unfortunate ones and therefore your perceptions are formed on the slightly negative sides ...
from the way you mentioned and the way you handle some situations ... already showed that you are already affected by the negative effects in the circle.
They are many circles in life ...
the good and fortunate ones will formed their own circle to compare how good are they, what luxurous goods they have and etc ..
The bad and unfortunate ones will too formed their own circle adn have their own discussions , bad influnces bad and etc ..
the former group will never mix with the latter group adn thus will never pity them .. thats how a vietnamese is to you ...
the more effects you got, more emotional feelings will be laid out thus translating into more undesired problems. When you are so involve and many negative vales formed , how can see things on the bright side ... how can say in future can open eyes and differentiate ...
Be reminded that vietnamese also possess the mastery art of KC ...
To each its own ... good luck and cheers ...