Reading all your posts and having a rough mental image of your respective bx, it is unlikely that she is my FB. This is not to say that she is not someone's else wife.
There is nothing wrong to being in my FB's circle. Its a community. A home away from home. My association here let me realize that even should I marry a Viet or any other foreigners, its is important for her to develop her own circle of friends.
The support here is not only gossip. They bond. They share food. Help babysit and even help out monetarily. Its really money no enough in their allowance for quite a number of them.
Yes, my FB may have an affair. But she does not encourage others to have the same. Nor does she judge, or moralize. How can she? And sadly, quite a few of them do have affairs (some brief, other for years).
I know this may rub a lot of bros the wrong way - as this is "life partner" thread -
but I do feel that viets tend to treat marriage more lightly than what the majority of sinkies do. Sorry to offend but this is sincere feeling and observation. Should I one day be married to them, I will do so with my eyes open to this fact.
Sorry if I offend. And if TS or any regular contributors feel uncomfortable about me opening up - and unfortunately there are other can of worms
. I will 100% clam up and just be a silent reader and supporter to this wonderful wonderful thread.