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Originally Posted by SingViet
They call me stingy, very stingy. But i call them greedy, very greedy. If this month i lend them 50 million VND, next month, they will want to borrow again. It will be a bottomless pit. I cannot lend them money just to make my wife happy. That's why i always tell my wife, we should save money for ourselves and children, what for give money to those `useless chaps'. I know my wife is not happy when i call her sisters and brothers `useless', but sometimes, she will tell me that she knows her siblings are very useless.
If you can only earn 2 million VND a month, then live a life within your means. Don't earn 2 million VND a month and want to spend 30 million VND. Not enough and always borrow from others. My staff in VN also same, he says his gf's mother need money to go for surgery, so want to borrow 5 million VND from me. I told him that its not possible, if no money, don't be hero. He says i can minus 1 million VND a month from his salary and i told him if i minus that amount, how is he going to survive? 
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Like what u say,u cannot lend your money just to make your wife happy.I agreed with u.I am one of them.Still remember once when we just marry.My wife bring me to see some property and ask me to buy cos that time is when property start to boom.I told her i have no money to buy but she insist on bringing me to see.
I went to see 3 property bring by her friends and agent.At night we dine with one of her close friend and she ask me which property i interested.I told her i no money to buy then she became angry and ask me if i no money why go and see
I got damm piss off and rise my voice and say:I told u i no money already and u insist on bringing me to see,dont try and test me ok.Ppl around us start to look at us.
Then while riding back,i told her i am going back to her house to take my luggage to stay outside at a hotel.She was shock and refuse me from moving out.