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Originally Posted by SingViet

They call me stingy, very stingy. But i call them greedy, very greedy. If this month i lend them 50 million VND, next month, they will want to borrow again. It will be a bottomless pit. I cannot lend them money just to make my wife happy. That's why i always tell my wife, we should save money for ourselves and children, what for give money to those `useless chaps'. I know my wife is not happy when i call her sisters and brothers `useless', but sometimes, she will tell me that she knows her siblings are very useless.

If you can only earn 2 million VND a month, then live a life within your means. Don't earn 2 million VND a month and want to spend 30 million VND. Not enough and always borrow from others. My staff in VN also same, he says his gf's mother need money to go for surgery, so want to borrow 5 million VND from me. I told him that its not possible, if no money, don't be hero. He says i can minus 1 million VND a month from his salary and i told him if i minus that amount, how is he going to survive?

5 mill can lend or give lah, not 50 mill.