[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Blast88

In certain extent, yes some time they are stubborn but what I feel are majority lacking of self-confidence. Eg, Once we went to a shopping mall & my bx enter a lingerie shop with a chinese sales girl to buy bra & underwear, although she can converse quite well in mandarin & cantonese but she still shy to ask, thinking people might not understand her & end of the day I need to ask on her behalf regards to cup sizes, material make, patterns, how much, etc, it make me so 'pai sei' & I dare not make any eye contact with the sales girl during the whole buying process.

Initially i also same like u feel very pai sei when i 1st went shopping for bras with my wife. But after that i think to myself: hey she is yur wife what is so pai sei about buying lingerie with her. Now I even help my wife buy "pads" at ntuc.