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Originally Posted by Kim91
Wah uncle singviet then u shooting me la?? Just joking.. I just feel that that to understand our wife n culture its a must to immerse in them=food n language. But even if u understand language then let them know esp if trying to know them. Then u can hear if they talk anything bad not. Its the same for our wifes. They tried hard to pick up our language fast n they are good at it. But they dun like sing food. Sad i dunno how to feed my wife with....
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All along,i never think of learning their language to know whether they are talking bad about me or not.Some time i do heard or i should say i sense my wife complaining to her friend about me especially after some arguement but i always dont care on what she say to her friend
I know how to judge,think and sense with logic on what she say and do after few years of marriage.For my case,I dont think is a must to immerse in their food n lauguage or culture to understand them.Is both way,u can know and learn everything about them,but if u dont know how to love and understand them as your wife,then is still back to zero.
They can learn a foreign language very fast so ultimately is you yourself to be 'smarter' on what she do,want or need.why should u be sad when she dont like sing food?For me is not a big issue if my wife dont like