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Originally Posted by Antony wong
Hi , yes I am doing 2 job , one is a normal day job and also some side job . I don wanna mention my job to protect my self and others .
I stay in normal hdb in kim tian road , my father is a hawker my mum is helping her. I also have a big brother who is many year older than me.
I only drive a second hand lancer before . And now no more so abit free on cash.
I don make $6k or 10k but I am not a big spender . I cheong daily yes but always share with friend on Martell . Only occasion open when my friend birthday. I give $30 tips to girl when I Cheong .
I give her $2k not here to yaya I rich . I also need to work for a living. But now no car already and no go Cheong much because of her so can offer her $2k.
If next time anything happen I will struggle also. But as for now I still ok.
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It does not matter to us really! What's important is that you know well what you are doing and what you can afford..if from what you say you do not have any substantial savings then giving a VB 2k per month while your future is in doubt sounds silly... really
But as the saying goes, when you're in it, you would think nothing is wrong. The impact will hit you when you're out of it...but then again, who are we to judge your relationship with her for we do not know anything about her.
It would be prudent to start saving up for yourself and your future...this i can say for sure you have to start...somewhere somehow....who knows when you try to cut down on the money, you will then see the REAL gal! - it can be good and only good:
Good - she understands that you want to save up....maybe you can tell her for the wedding for both of you or some well-intentioned goals. If she understands and stand by you and accepts it. Then, you
could very well have a gal who is ready to go thru thick and thin with you for the person that you are and will support your decisions...
BETTER - she says ok but then starts to get busy, day by day. Lazy to meet you, must earn money etc etc. You know all the signs and symtoms right. Then you'll know that all along you've been taken for a ride. Well, so be it! this can only be for the better no?
The ball in in your court....remember this!
Good luck!
