hey wow, this thread suddenly heat up ahh...
anyway my 2 pesos:
1 peso: mens from mars, women from pluto.. , and never the twain shall meet! lol we don't understand them, they don't understand us but that's what makes it all so SEXciting! if they are just like regular joes / guys, who can decide what to wear in 1 min, and get ready to go out the door in 5 mins, it's damn boring can? bono already hit the nail on the friggin head - can't live with or without them, hur hur .. some truth in that
my other peso: but men will never stop trying to understand women, even if it's a seemingly impossible task, just see the successes of books like "the game" which claims to teach you how to pick up chicks by understanding the way they think and shows like "Hitch" about dating expert showing greenhorn the tricks (ironically Will Smith ends up with a girl his dating tricks didn't work on in the end)
though it may be useless or counter productive to try and dissect how they think, we just never stop trying to do that -- just like women can never stop trying to understand men. Just pick up any ladies mag, and you'll find tonnes of articles on what men REALLY want .. two parallel roads on the highway to heaven. but hell, it's a sweet journey
PS - now that i've spent my last 2 pesos, any bros wanna meet up for beer to further discuss these issues feel free to PM me , as long as you buy first round,