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Originally Posted by jklpoi
Going to share some of my experiences.
I too hear of horror stories of Vietnam ladies asking for money for their families, buy this buy that. But somehow, my ba xa family is very different from typical traditional vietnam family. Its hard to explain, but you have to be there to experience it. Her mum only calls and ask for money for a few things.
1) House rent - SGD200+ every month.
2) Food, clothes, school fees, english school fees, tution school fees for my ba xa 2 kids. - SGD 300-400 every month.
She never even ask for medical fees when she has a genuine case of bad knees. I allow my Ba xa to work because i understand the hardship of living in singapore and she too understand it.
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actually, after reading yur story i got question marks above my head like this:
Where yur MIL lives ha? Rent need S$200+ per mth?? That is at least 3300000VND! Maybe i snoob, i have never heard rent so high unless she stay in big houses or condos. Maybe bros can provide some info on this.
U mentioned yur MIL has many children, why her other children not contributing to the rent? If they are staying together with yur MIL, i see that they have every reasons to contribute.
Dont u have this kind of questions?
Also, why u still need to take $$ from her? U r earning 3k-4k not enough for u alone to spend?