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Originally Posted by SingViet
Before trying to be an expat, ask yourself these questions:
(1) what's your education level?
(2) What's your working experience and expertise? Companies do not employ you and send you over as EXPAT just because you have a viet wife.
(3) If you cannot feed your wife here already, what makes you think life in VN will be better?
Normal expats in VN are not paid much, unless you are posted there as some director of public listed companies. Stop dreaming, pull up your pants and BE A MAN. Stop sending your wife out there to earn a living as WL. Tell your wife the truth, she can forget about PR as how will the government grant PR to her when you cannot even feed yourself?
Sorry to be blunt but i seriously look down on man like you who marry and cannot feed your wife. Worse still, still let your wife work as WL to support herself. You are only 27 years old, what big car and big money can you earn last time? Stop boasting here and BE A MAN.
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Never mind, its been so common that i dont get believe when i speak about my past. Its always about my age.Older Singaporeans with their fixed and brainwashed mindset always think that young adults cant succeed when they are young. Nowadays, there are so many 20-29 yrs old millionaire out there. What makes you think that i cant be one of them?
And about the expat thingy, that's a joke, a scarsm if you don't get it. I will go vietnam work as an expat if i got the chance, but i do not purposely go search for that chance. My plan, if you read carefully, is to work in singapore until i choose to retire and go over to vietnam to retire.
I already told her that its very hard to get PR in singapore nowadays and she knows it. Since i know her, i have never harbor any thoughts of her becoming a PR. Because i am a Ex-convict, i was nearly bankrupt, and i have a poor credit rating. She understand me and she just want to stay near me, never mind PR or no PR, as long as it's near me.
And about supporting her when i cant even feed myself. Yes, i cant feed my self now, but who is to say after 1 or 2 years, i cant get back what i lost? I am still young, i have the energy to chiong back everything i once lost. And not to boost, but to make a point, i am earning 4k+ per month, how many 27yrs old you know is making 4k+ per month now.
I hate it when people look down on me. I had it enough with people looking down on me. Think about what you are writing before you post, Please.