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Originally Posted by vietboy
Marriage is not a gamble. Its an long term investment. Gamble is u have 50/50 chances n u not sure the outcome n u have not done research, just take a game of chances. Long term investments are u have done research n choose the best investment n u r sure of the outcome n returns. If u see marriage as a gamble, best not marry as 90% u bound to lose. 十赌九输
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I have different thinking.I still think marriage is a gamble.Even people who have done lots of research as what u mention still lose and end in divorce.Couple can know each other for many many years before marry and still divorce so is it call gamble or long term investment?
Couple who marry many many years,have kids already will still end up divorce.whether is marry local or foreigner,is still the same except marry foreigner,the 'stack' is higher.
There is no such thing as best investment for marriage,only best tolerant and understanding from both party.
I see marriage as a gamble and i go for it,up to now i can say i did not lost but gain a lot from this few years of marriage experience.
Who can safely say his marriage is long term investment like insurance or FD which gurantee safe return?Nobody know cos people change at different stage,so for me is there is no long term investment.Only 'manageable gamble' means u can control how to gamble.
