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Originally Posted by twater
bro rurouni87, and all other bros who are new to maid hunting, please for goodness sake, do not be mistaken. maids are women and human beings too... nobody likes to be treated like dirt or sex objects... you wanna up them, show some respect, treat them nicely, and you MAY get a chance.. they only thing that sets them apart from a "normal" woman is that they are lonely and have needs to be fulfilled. i've been rejected by maids before even for asking for numbers.. also there are some who will never meet you. be patient, play your cards right, and go for the right type. also most importantly, as i mentioned before, don't listen too much to their sob stories...
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maybe there is very little written here about rejection and the associated feeling of being rejected. when i first started on my DH journey, there was so much rejection and problems, i felt like a loser and thought i would never had any luck with the fairer sex. my ego prevented me from giving up and my gut pushed me along. of course, my thick skin helped.
so, for newbie, dont give up. the more you try, the luckier you become. once u reached critical mass, u wish there is more than 24 hours in a day.
p/s: for those who pm me for photography outing with DH, be patient as not all DH enjoy (strangers) company and photography.