thks for the prompt reply
basically, everyone else (except him of cos) can see that the vb is obviously after his money ONLY. Already squandered all his savings on her within the 1st yr. Even frd's mum object to this but sadly, no one can talk any sense to him. Worst part is, the vb not even that dep. Now his married and there's a kid on the way.
In a nutshell, he changed way too much, way too fast after knowing the vb. Just worried if there's a spell on him or something. He cut off all contacts with our group of frds and we are concern for his well being.