Sorry if this is in the wrong forum...didn't know where else to share this information.
A bro asked about girls in Jakarta so I thought I can give some information about what's happening with non-working girls...
I found this out purely by accident myself and have been enjoying the fruits of my discovery ever since....
By the way bros...I have done this same drill in China, Thailand and Malaysia...it works!!! (I've even tried it in Sg...*evil grin*... but it ended up costing the same as cheonging because I now needed to book a reasonable hotel room to complete the set up...warning- in Sg, you must be able to slang like an ang mo to make this work...)
Picking up non-working girls -
Part one - The Mentality.
Firstly - like many 'developing' and newly developed countries.....many girls in Jakarta have the Pinkerton disease....hoping that an ang mo will save them and elevate them to princess status back in a foreign land...
How does this help us non ang mos? read on...
While an ang mo is the ultimate catch for these young office dwelling women...most of them have English problem. They can speak only a little bit...very little bit of English....so...
We step up as the next best thing...we are also foreigners but safer because we are Asians; We, therefore = knight in not-so-shiny armour...but a knight nonetheless...
(Think of our own SPGs....who gets seconds after the ang mos?? Not the Chinese bros for sure...but in Jakarta, believe or not...Chinese is a very close second...especially foreigner Chinese who has a good job)
Secondly - the wages are piss poor in Jakarta...many young women working in offices earn 3-5 million Rp a month....bros...we often spend more than that in one cheong session...
What has that got to do with us? A hell of a lot...
We can bring them to have Starbucks coffee & cakes, which is roughly their one day's wage...then a nice sushi dinner, which is roughly their one week's wage...then clubbing and all they and their friends can drink, which is their half month's wage...plus plus plus....without buying gifts and spoiling the market...just the meals, drinks and a good time will make them stick with you and want to show their gratitude...
Having a shower and staying in a nice hotel is something they want to experience...really!!
Thirdly - they are tired of life in the slow lane...they spend 3-5 hours traveling to and from work every day...they work 8-10 hours a day...all they talk about is within their sphere of maybe Jakarta, maybe outer Jakarta...they need some spice in life...
Guess what bros? We're the spice...we can tell them stories of the world...what is Sg like? Australia? USA? China?...they love it and dream of one day moving to those countries...
Fourthly - they are used to and bored with the polite Indonesian guys. They want someone to sweep them off their feet. Someone daring to show them an adventure...
If we provide that bros...we're in!!
Lastly...but this is the reverse of all the above...
The rich girls...those who are from well to do families and are almost match-made from young to be married off to another rich family...those girls want to piss daddy off before they must settle down...many will do this with ang mos but some...some don't dare go that far...pissing daddy off and being cut off from the inheritance are two different games....so they choose a foreigner who is still relatively safe...enough to piss daddy off but won't give him a heart attack...that's us bros...
There are some cultural landmines we must know and we shall discuss those later.
(to be continued)