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Part Three - The Set Up
Now some bros may be saying....who has the fucking time??
Well...we all have to eat...when on holiday, I do like to go shopping for little trinkets...and if I'm going to spend a couple of hours in a shopping mall anyway...then I might as well put a mission into my required routine...
The fastest I have completed a full mission is 4 hours. By the 5th hour she was in my hotel room. The average time for a mission will be around 6-8 hours, often broken into two days....seems long for those bros who want instant results...but please bear in mind that this method gives me repeated visits any time I go to that country again.
If the mission works out...the time I need to spend on cheonging later can be used to work on this lady...I'll still have a good time and most certainly, I will spend less money than going directly to cheong...
The best part is...cheonging is still not out of the question...should the mission fall apart at any point...the places to cheong are still opened to me.
There was once when I realised, while clubbing with a girl and her 4 friends, that things did not look as promising as I first thought...I said I needed the toilet and never went back...I spent 1 mil on drinks and dinner with them but up to that point I had a great time...I switched habour base and cheong to a massage with happy ending...
And guess what...a day later one of her friends called to ask me what happened...I made up some excuse of stomach problem and all was quickly forgiven...an hour of chit chat later, she agreed to, and met me alone that evening for dinner...and I had her screaming my name that night in my bed...
Alrighty then...what is the set up?
I will always dress to declare myself as a foreigner...shorts are good and wear a nice polo shirt or a nice short sleeve shirt...
Be a bit classy but laid back...your attire must speak out - I make decent money but I'm on holidays. Sunglasses is a must...I often go out at night with my sunnies perched on the top of my head...that is a dead giveaway that I am foreign.
Be careful though...don't go over board and dress like a millionaire...young women may be intimidated and that's not good...a successful working man on holiday is the image we want...
I always pretend that I cannot speak Bahasa...English only...please bros, no singlish...we want to impress, not assimilate...we want to be different to what they are used to....
If perchance the young lady you are trying to impress is Chinese and can speak Chinese...speak a few broken Chinese words and look embarrassed...then keep switching back to English...same drill with your Chinese as Bahasa...
Why pretend cannot speak Bahasa...details later...
This set up works best if you will be in town for more than 2 days...you need two nights to make good your set up...if you have only one day left...it's possible but it will take a lot more effort...
Here's my cover story...I am in town for a holiday because...and this is the most important part...because I have been posted to work in Indonesia from next month onwards...I am here to scout the living conditions before I accept the posting...I've been planned to stay in Indonesia for at least two years but may be forever if I like the country....
Always choose your 'working' town away from where you are...if in Jakarta, I'll be posted to Bandung...if in Bundung, I'll be posted to Jakarta... you'll see the logic in this later on...
Lastly...show control of your money...show her that you calculate everything...not because you are a tight arse...but because you want to maximise your dollar, this makes you a thinking man...at the same time, be willing to spend, especially on her; this makes you possible boyfriend material...indicate that you have a budget and is trying to stick to it; this makes you money conscious...know the top and bottom end of the market and choose a reasonable middle ground (like taking a bus or order a limo? Nah, a normal taxi will do me.....stay at the backpackers or the Ritz Carlton? Nah, a three-four star hotel will do me...etc)... this makes you worldly wise...all the above are very appealing to a young lady when displayed in moderation...
(to be continued)