Most of marriages that break down was because of financial problems. How can you have a wife (and her family) that's dependent on you when you cannot even feed yourself? You don't marry a viet spouse because you can get free sex, its a lifetime of commitments and responsibilities. So if you as a 20 something feel that you are a millionaire, think again, is your career stable? I remember a 20 something told me that many 20 somethings are millionaires nowadays, but are you? I have been a 20 something young man before, i know what you guys went thru and whether you are really one.