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By this time, you will almost feel like you are a couple...light flirting and teasing...joking and laughing...
Walk her to somewhere more private...usually to a lift lobby, or to a deadish corner or to a smoking area (great if both of you are smokers)...turn and face her as you talk to each other...
Nod and encourage her to talk as before...then without warning, still nodding your head and so on...reach out and brush her hair back…only once please...smile and continue to talk or nod at what she is saying as if nothing had happened...
If you feel brave a few minutes later...tell her there's something on her face and reach out, using the back of your fingers and lightly brush her cheek...then say it's gone now...
Immediately after this, if there is no adverse reaction...suggest a drink or ice cream or yogurt to wind down...give her a chance to think about what you did...but for you...It is time for phase ten…
Phase ten - Talk about other things...the shopping mall, her job etc...then, find difficult questions for her...especially ask her about things she might not know...'hey, where would I find a good wifi router that supports a Mac?' or 'do you know where I can buy a good second-hand motorcycle for a good price?' or 'what would be a reasonable amount to pay for an apartment in "the town you will be working in"?'....she will likely say she doesn't know...make her say she doesn't know 2-3 times in a row...now bros, she is secretly kicking herself for not being able to be helpful...then you ask her this...
'Hey, you know, my hotel is quite nice but I think there are nicer hotels for the same price...what do you think? Should I move to another hotel? Or maybe you can suggest a nicer hotel?'
She will want to know which hotel you stay at and how nice is nice...
*heh heh heh bros...make sure yours is not the top hotel in Jakarta or she will likely know something about it...then this method won't work any more...
Whatever she comes up with, you suggest maybe she better see it for herself...oh hey, it's not that far...want to go check it out? We can get a drink and chat when we are there...(if your hotel has a café…solid, the excuse is already tailor-made for you…)
Ok bros...I have been shot down here before...2-3 times out of 10, a girl will say no thanks...but that doesn't mean NO, guys...she is just not ready...this is where having a second day is important...ask her out the next day and try again...start from phase four and go through the routine again...
(please bros, not lunch for the second day ok, not unless both of you have the afternoon off...you need to be able to bring her to your hotel once you get to phase ten again remember?...Oh wait, I guess you can do lunch and then dinner again...might work...I don't have the patience, but hey...)
The good thing about the second day is you can express the phases...I usually take 3-4 hours on the first day to get to phase ten but only take less than 1-2 hours on the second day...
The second date also gives her the impression that you are not desperately trying to get into her pants...therefore you must be trust worthy enough to be alone with...(I’ve had a girl came back with me, lay down beside me in her work clothes and said to me…I must really trust you to do this…I cannot believe I am lying on your bed…’of course you can trust me sweetie, here, let me help you get more comfortable'…then I proceeded to undress her…slowly at first…completely eventually…took 20 minutes, but hey, it’s about the journey and not the destination right?)
Bros, I have had a few girls needing the second date but then they bring along their overnight stuff when we meet on the second day...night cream, tooth brush, PJ and so on... it's fucking unbelievable...
If she says yes...don't waste time...fast hand fast leg (pick up two drinks if you don’t have anything to drink in your room) go to the taxi queue...Do not pass go!! Do not collect $200!!!
Oh, make sure the drinks are non-alcoholic...just in case she is a Muslim...
(Strange thing about some of the Muslim girls in Indonesia...they will fuck you silly but will not eat pork nor drink alcohol...I have had one girl asked me if I had eaten pork that day before she was willing to kiss me...no disrespect to them here...I just find it odd...I love them the way they are...btw, many Muslims do drink, they may just not be comfortable admitting that to you yet…remember, it is still only the first day you met her…)
Don't give her a chance to change her mind...once she has agreed to go...talk about other things...act like having her go back with you is the most natural thing in the world and there is no need to discuss it any further...some bros may go: 'are you sure you are ok to come back with me?', 'trust me, I won't try anything..' and so on...shut up with that...talk about the weather, the cab fare, the night scenery...do NOT, I say again, DO
NOT make her second guess her decision...
Alrighty bros...we are now in the cab rushing back to our hotel room having completed our phases and now ready to move to Part five...the FUN part...congrats!!
(to be continued)