[desviper00]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

I have been reading in amazement how various sinkie brudders here have been:
a. rushing to get officially married to a vb
b. buying gold and jewellery to please them
c. working hard to move into new house and even worried about little details such as a Welcome Back Home signage!

Let me just list a few things here that is Guarantee to make ur life with ur VB into a big FAILURE (and not success).

1. Give them as much money as they ask for.
2. Treat them very nice, peel the prawn, open the door, push the chair... etc
3. Worry very much about impressing them and letting them know u really care about them and will do whatever they ask u to do.
4. Sending them for various training courses... English, Chinese, Hair dressing... etc etc.
5. Being 100% loyal to them beyond any reasonable doubts.

In fact, those things ur mother taught u about treating a girl... if u do exactly that... there is a very HIGH chance ur relationship with ur VB will FAIL miserably and very fast and soon asking urself "what did i do wrong to deserve this shit????"

meaning by doing so, we will be seen as "good to makan" ??