[demondemon]

hi bros, need some advise

how do u all decide your girl is the right girl to marry?

i have a viet fling for about 2½ years
our age is about the same

i nvr provide her much

but since my job do allow me to travel and adding my leave, i can go HCM quite often, say every 2 months
sometimes i give her some allowance
sometimes i don't

she finish her manicure course liao, but recently talk to me about marriage
frankly speaking i am skeptical

on 1 hand, i feel we have this fling relationship until way too long
it's probably natural for her to ask this

on the other hand, i feel maybe she just want a long term rice ticket
and get the permit to stay here

and most importantly, i find it hard to tell my family if i am going to marry a viet bu
i got a property under my name, so i also scare of WC