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Originally Posted by BODO
Had a big fight with my wife. Now she wants to file a divorce.
Wat shall I do?
Actually, our problem started many years ago.
But I just endure it for the pass few years.
No third party or family violence involved.
(I am actually the victim for family violence)
I don't mind a divorce.
But I can't bear to part with my 3 yrs old son.
Please advise.
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Bro, divorce is sour in every way ... especially when you have kids, its just making things worst (you cannot split your child into 2 , can you ? )
If there are things that are not align with 2 parties, talk it out ... if need be, treat your wife to a short trip ... it might help her to release her anger and find out who is at the wrong part (maybe there is still chance to talk outside the house, the stress is not so big....)
In case of alimony, there is nothing in the context of the law to state that the woman has priority in the child (fairness is the key). but the society keeps looking as most of the child alimony has been given to the woman side, this puts the stress on to the defense lawyers (the men), we would have to prove that the child has much more to gain if they were to follow daddy (more money, more care and sort...)
somehow, one party will lose out... its just who thats the case