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Originally Posted by samsonboy
Bro, divorce is sour in every way ... especially when you have kids, its just making things worst (you cannot split your child into 2 , can you ? )
If there are things that are not align with 2 parties, talk it out ... if need be, treat your wife to a short trip ... it might help her to release her anger and find out who is at the wrong part (maybe there is still chance to talk outside the house, the stress is not so big....)
In case of alimony, there is nothing in the context of the law to state that the woman has priority in the child (fairness is the key). but the society keeps looking as most of the child alimony has been given to the woman side, this puts the stress on to the defense lawyers (the men), we would have to prove that the child has much more to gain if they were to follow daddy (more money, more care and sort...)
somehow, one party will lose out... its just who thats the case
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My wife is determined to file a divorce and getting a lawyer to do so.
So, on my side, wat shall I do to get prepared? Also getting a lawyer too?
I have to protect my own rights, not just agree to whatever terms she say.
Or just discuss with her lawyer on these matter?
If go separate first before divorce, need to engage lawyer?
All terms and condition and money matters and child custody
To discuss before separation?