My bx know of a VB who has a good for nothing Singaporean husband. My wife asked her why she still follow the husband, she told my wife no matter what, stay here she still better than in VN. Although her husband is good-for-nothing, at least his parents still pay for everything ( mind you, her husband is almost 40 years old and a graduate ) and she still has food to eat. Her husband also promised her to send $200 to her mother every month and has been fulfilling promise.