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Originally Posted by BODO
Dear brothers,
I need some advice.
My wife has already find a lawyer to file divorce.
Her lawyer is requesting to meet and draft out the papers.
So she wants to discuss with me on the terms and conditions before
Meeting the lawyer.
Actually she has already state her terms and condition and is expecting
Me to agree to them.
Terms like surrendering my son's custody and ownership of our HDB flat.
I tried to reason with her that it is best for my son under my care but
she got so work up and refuse to listen to my analysis.
Now she wanna discuss on the terms again. Wat shall I do now?
I am unable to communicate with her and she always get so work up,
end up nothing is discussed and she assume I agree to all her terms.
Can I get a third party to talk to her? Like family consultants or counsellor?
Lawyer is a bit expensive. Can I single party go to family counsellor for help?
Because she never listen to me if I ask her to see a counsellor.
Pls advise.
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Since she has already engaged a lawyer, there's no point going for counselling now as most probably her lawyer have already drafted the strategy for her to fight this divorce. Do not be taken in by her words or threats and go get a lawyer for yourself otherwise you will end up very badly on the losing end. Now is not the time to worry about costs, money need to be spent then no choice must spend.