[shadowlunar04]

Hi there, I had to start a new thread to seek some advices out there. Here goes,

I had a friend, knew him since secondary school, can say he is my blood brother. He had just go steady with his current gf not long ago. You see, this friend of mine is a below average guy, in terms of looks and career. He has been trying to court gals since he came out to work, about 8 years. I can say his sucessfully rate is below 20% and all the breakups were initial by the gfs. I really pitied him.

I also know his current gf (she was one of my ex-colleagues who happened to join my friend's company last year, I came to know only few months back), and helped him to court this ex-colleague of mine. I knew my friend was courting her, so sometimes I asked her out to put in good words for my friend. Things went well and my ex-colleague went steady with my friend.

The incident started when I was shopping with another close friend of mine (army friend), knew him since army days, about 10 years. We met my blood brother and his gf at Raffles City Shopping Mall. We introduced one another. I didn't know this army friend of mine also took fancy on my ex-colleague then.

4 of us did went out twice. It was then my army friend got the contact number of my ex-colleague. They started seeing each other and going out. This was done without my knowledge until my friend called me this afternoon and told me the whole thing. I called my army friend and ex-colleague to confirm. Both of them admitted to it. Worse still, my friend threatened to whallop my army friend. I spent a few hours, on and off, trying to pacify my friend.

I'm in Batam now. I wanted to go back to help my friend to settle the matter in peace. But, I couldn't, because of the job commitment here, I have to stay back a few more days. I'm in dilemma right now. All I can do is call my friend and try to talk some sense into him. But, it's difficult because he has a rather bad temper.

Dear bros, pls help to suggest something useful which I can use it immediately or at least stall it until I get to the country. Thanks for the help and advices.

Pls do not give useless comments or luo jing xia shi (throw stones down the well). I don't need that right now.