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Originally Posted by Goldenhair
Will use some of my graduatity to try setting up the resturant. It is really a big gamble emotionally and financially for me. But I sincerely hope its worth it. Right now i am just glad we are in the honeymoon stage and she has yet to request anything for me. But i did buy perfumes for her whenever I fly over.
I feel its also quite selfish on my part as I want the resturant to keep her busy so that she will not be bored and stray. So far so good.
UPDATE: mama flying in from taiwan this May to check me out..  Apparently the Father likes me. But the one wearing the pants is the Mama!!1 Stress!!! Any gift suggestions for mama?? Stress!!!!...since during the brother's wedding, mama is busy taking of sick elder sister's son in Taiwan. now she's flying in just to check me out...siao liao.. |
Make sure you marry her first before you invest in anything in her name. Even that she can still sell away without your approval since is her name. There are other methods to safe guard, please speak to your lawyer or Seniors here.
In Vietnam, mother is the number 1 in every household hierarchy. You can never be able to replace her mothers postion even after marriage. This is their culture. The best gift item for her mother is uncle Ho notes or gold items. Don't bother to buy any other things.
My opinion is never jump into marriage. Give the relationship at least 2 years time to grow and develop. You can see her clearer after 2 years or more. Many relationship cannot last so long. Also learn the Vietnam culture and language which will help you in long run.
The above is my personal opinion.