[SammyNewbie]

I SammyNewbie, have been on chat apps for a few days, besides doing my homework and preparing for interviews and honestly, I've gotten quite fed up by some of the comments I read on the profiles of some ladies.

Lady one : I do not want to 81/Fragrance or Orgasmic Squirting with you!

Lady two : Why does Skout allow pictures that are obscene to be sent through?

Lady three : I'm not interested in sex! Go away!

What the hell are some of you people thinking when you go there?

Please use your logical mind and think it through.

Has flashing your penis pic in a forum or chatroom ever got you laid even on a sex forum? Would you unzip your pants in front of a female colleague to show her you are interested in her sexually?

When you see an attractive lady on the street when you walk up to her, do you tell her that sex is the first thing on your mind?(unless she's a prostitute)

Yet logically, though you know the answer to both the questions, Why are you still doing it online? IT DOES NOT WORK!

I feel part of the reason why it's hard to pick up ladies now is not only my social ineptness, but is also the result of some of the men behaving badly online thinking they can get away with it. You are screwing up not only your own chances of scoring, but other people's chances as well.

Well if you've gotten pissed because you are one of the seniors who does this, please go ahead and zap me and leave this thread, but if you decide that what I say makes some sense and decided that you want to figure out what you should do then read on.

First off, you need a mindset change. These ladies are not prostitutes/freelancers. You can't just go up to them and go 'How much? or wanna go hotel with me?'. Let's look at this from a ladies perspective a little. The first thing that goes through her mind is that she doesn't know you. If she brings you home, what happens if you're a stalker and after you have sex and now that you got the sex you just want it and keep pestering her. What happens if you are a serial killer and chops her into nine parts after u did the deed and dispose of her? What happens when she gives you her number and you decide to be a twerp and exchange it here on SBF for useless points and other girls? And the list goes on...

My point is, that if you want to bed a woman, you must get her to at least feel comfortable around you enough to trust you and not run away the moment you meet her. That's going to take some time, and you're going to have to be PATIENT. You'll need to talk to her at least for a little while before she even gets comfortable enough to actually tell you more stuff about her life, and finally even to meet you face to face. Depending on the woman and your skill level, the time this takes might vary.

Ok, I'm just going to go through and share a little bit about how I go about this... so read on.