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Old 10-05-2013, 04:03 PM
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

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Originally Posted by zomgbaby View Post
HI Muscleboi, thank you for your suggestions. I did try surprise sex, body massage etc but it didn't work out too. I had to confront her because she has been avoiding the topic for past few months. I was desperate for an answer for what is happening between us. Her only answer was that she had lost interest in sex. I have always respect her preferences and never had once crossed the line. All i can hope for now is that someday she would change.
I know, bro. use aphrodisiac. got orthodox ones and unorthodox ones. you choose. you will know what's best..

glad you didnt cross the line. keep it up. but remember you didnt marry to be a monk. there're too many "maybe"s in the world..."maybe after having a kid, she will become horny again." "maybe after she reaches 30s, her hormones can make her want more sex." ..whether to take the risk, its up to you.

i always think its good to discuss all forms of commitment including sex before marriage..but then again, change is the only constant. who knows things will change for the better? mindset must stay positive since you're already in the contract.
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