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Thanks Bro Warpig,

For give me advice.

My child is 4yrs old. I went to counselling alone before, got ask her to come along but she say is there a need to go. About saying the legal aid, they say I not qualify for the legal aid because of the total salary that I take back. ( basic salary + ot ). Do I have the choice when they say I not qualify?

I have to engage lawyer myself. Now I divorce with her in the grounds of unreasonable behavior because the the affair is more than 6 months ago. Around 1 year +. I tolerate her for 1 year +. At first though that forgive her and she will go back the same as usual. And another reason is my child, I can't let go. I have wrong, in this 1 year +, she have been speak rude to me, no matter I nicely talk to her, but there is no change. Have ask her numbers of times to reconcile this relationship but she don't want. She has not staying with me after the affair. She will only come back and stay when the child is back on weekend. ( Weekdays will be her mother take care of my child ). When she come back, she will use the bolster put in the centre of the bed, if not I will sleep with my child or she will sleep with my child. I have tolerate enough. This is part of my life that I living.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT WHY I NOT QUALIFY FOR THE LEGAL AID. BASIC SALARY IS 1.6K + OT. GOING TO OR ABOUT 2K . I DON UNDERSTAND.

Do Bros know this lawyer because I want to know is he/she good in fighting divorce case? The lawyer is she ( wife ) engaged. Here is not right place put. I will pm you.

Once again, Thanks to Bro Warpig for your advice.