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Originally Posted by mobiken
not to forget I would be sending money to her mum in viet (nt a big sum thou)
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how much is ur "not a big sum thou"....
and seriously i wonder why many are sending monthly allowance to their MIL?
and sad to say,are these guys giving their own parents monthly allowance?
i have been with my wife for almost 6 years.i do not give my MIL monthly allowance,only give her 1 million Vnd on New Year and ocassionally 500k when i get to see her.she does not grumble anything and still cook plently of good food for me to eat whenever i am back at country side.just something to share from my personal experience and observation while staying in Vietnam for a decade.when the Viets really treat u as a friend or own people,they never care about the money issue,doesn't means that u gotta pick up the bill bcos u r rich and richer then them,while back at countryside,my Viet friend always invite me to their house for beer and food whereas they only earn about 5 mills per month.if ur spouse or gf has the mindset that u gotta pay everytime bcos Sporean are "richer",then its time for u guys to "brain wash" and cultivate them.its either they simply just love ur money or they wanna get a foreign husband to show off.neither of these is good for the long run of relationship.
come on guys,i do know that many of u think that by marrying a Viet wife,u r actually marrying the whole family.but do give it careful thought,no one force u to do it.u do have a choice to choose,or did u guys do it bcos out of pride?
above is my from my own experience and observation.other people might have different thoughts..just a little something sharing from me nia...
