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Originally Posted by KangTuo
when have kids already then say whether got give allowance to family member.
my bx also say got kids liao don't need give monthly allowancetoher mum and dad. but now I am still giving monthly  |
I will continue to give my Bxa allowance to use in Singapore. If she can save the $ and keep it for her family, It good for her. I don't want her family member think that I will support their family until the day I die. I don't want her brother to took up gambling again and ask me for help again. Once, I help her brother to settle gambling debts of USD 3K. I told my Bxa, if one more time, I won't help him again. I do afraid that 1 day, her family will ask for more. I had told her all my concerns and she agree with it. Like I said, there are good and bad VB, I do saw the good one and I do saw the bad one too. Those bad one I saw really make me wanna to give them a tight slap.
Yesterday, Xin Ming newspaper had reported i gave my VB wife 15K to go back VN and didnt return to Singapore and lost contact. He log on to FB and saw saw his wife intimacy photo with a guy in VN. The wife was so clever to wait until 3 years when she got the PR, she disappeared. This example will lead to many people to think differently about VB. In the past it used to be Chinadolls having such problem. Now VB also give such problem. Sigh...... Frankly speaking my parents don't like me marrying a VB cos of so many bad news of them.