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Originally Posted by JCLane
yes by all means getting married is ok.
It's the control bit I'm referring to. Too many such happenings it is better to be aware than not. Doesn't want this kind of things to damage the situation while it takes time to build a relationship. Once it's damage, very difficult to patch. The trust level goes rock bottom...
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so are u meaning that u marry ur wife when the relationship is not build yet???
u sounds that all VN gals look bad,if thats the case then why u marry one and had to give urself so many restrictions and rules to it??
from my opinion,not all VN gals are bad,maybe just happen that those u know are.i have been together with my wife for 5 years.i have never restrict her on money issues,she has free access to my account through the ATM card and i have given her a supplementary card of 20 mills credit.she has never use her sup card and ATM card before although its always in her wallet.she attends school from 7.30am to 3pm...spends less then 200k per day which includes her 2 meals outside,motorbike parking,groceries bought back for dinner.
not all are bad,i am sure many bros here have excellent wife as well.